‘They Always Had Some Drama’: Friends Reflect on Romance Between Gabby Petito and Brian Laundrie
On the surface, Gabby Petito and Brian Laundrie seemed as perfectly-matched as any two people could be. But friends who spoke with PEOPLE say there was often tension between the couple, who’d dated since high school.
“One minute, they’d be all over each other, the next minute, he’d be like, ‘We’re fighting,'” says Laundrie’s friend, Ben Matula, describing their relationship when they were teenagers in Long Island, New York. “They always had some drama.”
Matula, who spoke to PEOPLE exclusively for this week’s issue, adds: “There was always something below the surface where things weren’t 100% wonderful.”
Over the weekend, Gabby’s body was found in Wyoming’s Grand Teton National Park, and officials have since determined her death was a homicide. Meanwhile, the search continues for Laundrie, her fiancé, who hasn’t been seen in over a week.
For nearly two months, Gabby, 22, and Laundrie, 23, had been traveling across America in a white, repurposed Ford Transit van. Police say Laundrie returned to his parents’ Florida home in the van on Sept. 1, and that he was alone.
Alyssa Chen, 23, said her vlogger friend Gabby’s on-again, off-again relationship with Laundrie had many ups and downs.
“They had times they were toxic and times where everything seemed a lot more healthy,” Chen tells PEOPLE. “They had very low lows and very high highs. But they really seemed to love each other. When things were good, you’d be like, ‘Why can’t I have a relationship like that?’ When they were bad, you’d be like ‘Oh my God, just break up and spare yourself from the drama and everyone else from having to hear about it.’ “
At this point, investigators have yet to say how Gabby was killed, but believe she died sometime between Aug. 27 and Aug. 30.
Police believe the relationship between Gabby and Laundrie became more strained during their tragic road trip, according to a newly unsealed search warrant connected to the case.
Matula says the tragedy of their road trip has made him reflect upon what he thought he knew about the couple.
“The guy who he’s being made out to be isn’t the guy I knew,” Matula insists. “But then I have to look at what’s going on and realize that he did some stuff that seems like it was shady — seems like maybe he wasn’t on the up and up. And because he did that stuff, a girl might be dead and he might be in trouble.
“It seemed like they were seeing the world with the person they loved,” Matula says. “They were living the dream that all of us want to do. But they were doing it. All their friends were either still in college or searching for entry level jobs, and they’re out there killing it. I was jealous, and I know I’m not the only one. I was happy for them.”
On Sept. 15, PEOPLE spoke with Petito’s father, Joseph Petito, who said his daughter was “amazing.”
“She’s so artistic. She’s an amazing artist. She loves to draw,” he said. “She has a great eye with decorating … She’s that flower child type of personality. The old soul, you know?”
“If Woodstock was still going on, she’d still be there, man,” Joseph added. “She’s a hippie from the ’60s, all right? She’s a Beatles fan, round glasses … a free spirit.”
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